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Last Published: 10/7/2008 2:21:18 PM
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Wednesday May 21, 2008
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 2:03PM EST on May 21, 2008
My kids are VERY creative. Being homeschooled, they usually had 2-3 hours of school work and the rest of the time they goofed off ... or entertained themselves. Creativity is the result. They write songs, write stories, read, and do video productions ... just for fun.

Also, they've recently "taken over" their youth group's drama department. This week Cory, Leslie, and Nathan are doing a skit on the theme "I am Bold." Nathan (14) has amnesia and he is very timid. The other two tell me that he's actually an accomplished and well-known person, and they enourage him to Be Bold.

The point of the message, of course, is to remind us who we are in Christ. Sometimes we forget.
Okay, most of the time we forget.

Anyway, here are a few of the illustrations the kids came up to to prove Nathan's success. I thought they were great!






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Thursday April 24, 2008
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 1:22PM EST on April 24, 2008
My family and a group from our church are missioning off to the Czech republic this summer!

We'll be teaching English and sharing the good news of Jesus. Please pray for our group, our trip, and for the hearts of the Czech people to be open to the message of God. I'm super excited to see what God does in our own hearts and for the people we get to minister to.

If you would like to be added to our prayer team or would like to make a donation for our trip, please email triciagoyer@yahoo.com. We will be gone July 24th-August 11th, and the cost is $3000 per person. We're having an auction fundraiser in two weeks, if any of you have anything (books, services, gift cards) you'd like to donate to our silent auction, that would be rad! Shoot me an email.

Also pray for my two oldest kids. They will fly from The Czech Republic to San Diego to meet up with their youth group going to Mexico to build two homes for families. Pray for the added funds (and strength!) needed for Cory (19) and Leslie (16)!




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Tuesday March 18, 2008
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 5:14PM EST on March 18, 2008
This is from 1.20.97. It was written the day after I gave my testimony about my abortion for the very first time in my church. I was terrified, but afterward God showed me how my story touched the people in the congregation. Now through articles, interviews, Life Interrupted, and My Life, Unscripted I continue to tell my story. Who knew?

God did!!!

"But Moses said to God, "Who am I, that I should go to Pharaoh and bring the Israelites out of Egypt?" Exodus 3:11

"Who am I Lord to do your work?" It is a universal question that brings us at odds with ourselves. We recognize we must be humble knowing we are nothing without God, yet we must also recognize we should be courageous knowing it is by God's strength that we succeed. D.L. Moody put it this way:
"Moses spent:
Forty years thinking he was somebody.
Forty years learning he was nobody.
Forty years discovering what God can do with a nobody."

Let me save you the time. You in yourself ARE nobody. In Christ you are somebody . . . somebody God can use.

God may not call you to be a great leader, but you may see your calling as just as intimidating. "Who am I?" may escape from you lips too. Listen to God's answer, "I will be with you . . . ."

No matter who you are. No matter what God is asking you to do, or to say, or to write--God is with you and that is enough.

"Who am I?" you ask. You are God's chosen vessel.



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Tuesday October 9, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 12:43PM EST on October 9, 2007
I must be bored (not) and rich (totally not)...because I'm having another contest!Yep, that's right...a C-O-N-T-E-S-T!

(Details on the OTHER contest -- for teens! here!)

This contest runs from September 16 through October 26 !

Here's the SCOOP!

Did you live your teen years unscripted? Or did you think it through and make wise choices?Write a sample script from your teen years (I know--scary!) and post it along with information about my book on your blog! Your script could be where you make a good choice ... or a not so good one. Also share how God's Word helps you as you script your life today!

The person with most creative blog post during the tour will win a gift basket which includes starbucks coffee, amazon gift card, an itunes gift card, and more. There will also be 5 runner up small gift baskets.

Oh...wait! There's one more contest! Ha!If you sign up for my newsletter here between now and Oct. 12, you'll be entered to win all of my fiction books (6 books!)Okay...I think that's it...for now! :)

Thursday September 27, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 12:42PM EST on September 27, 2007
My Life, Unscripted

CONTEST!

YOU CAN WIN A $25 iPod GIFT CERTIFICATE

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at PhotobucketHere's what you have to do. Read My Life, Unscripted by Tricia Goyer, and then write a review on her book and post it on your blog, myspace, shoutlife, or amazon.com. Sounds easy right? It really is. (Please forward this contest to any teens you think might be interested!) To obtain a copy of My Life, Unscripted you can visit amazon.com, Barnes and Noble or check into your local Christian book store.

My Life, Unscripted explores relationships in every teenage girl's life--with herself, her friends and enemies, her parents, guys, and with God. Real-life scripts, screenwriting terms, and timely topics, make this an interesting read for teen girls as they delve into their own inner struggles and outward relationships. They'll also learn the importance of "scripting" their own responses BEFORE challenging life-situations arise and are able to think about, pray about, and consider how to face these situations before the scene begins. By contrasting real-life with TV or movies, teens will understand they don't have to get caught up in the drama. In addition to the review, you may also include how you, too, have overcome temptation.

Many will enter

only Three will Win

Contest Begins NOW!

***contest ends 11/30/2007***

Wednesday September 26, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 10:24AM EST on September 26, 2007
People think I'm crazy ... seriously they do. I can't tell them about all the book ideas I have or possible projects coming down the pipeline ... otherwise they'll start hyperventaling.

People may wonder why I write. Is it to get famous? No way. Because I enjoy living by one crazy deadline to another? Uh, no. Is it because I really enjoy asking my husband to pick up pizza on the way home ... or perhaps just as a way to make sure I never get a coffee date with friends? Not even close.

I write so much--so many different things--because I am compelled by the love of Christ. In fact when I was doing my Bible Study today one verse especially resonated with me:

"For the love of Christ controls and urges and impels me ..." 2 Corinthians 5:14 (Amplified)

That's not to say I love God more and so I write more. (Not even close!!!) BUT when I get a new idea--and when an opportunity comes up to write something that will glorify God, share His love, and encourage others in their relationship with Christ--I HAVE TO say Yes. I HAVE TO follow. My whole soul burns within me until I do. I know when God is asking me to join Him ... and it would be disobedient not to do so.

This is my path and mine alone. It's a path of obedience to the messages He places on my heart. A path of desperation, because I can't write ONE WORD without Him. It's a path of connecting with the family of God, as God brings others alongside me to help me. (And, boy, do I need help!)

It's also on this path on which I've experienced God in amazing ways, mostly become I'm expecting and anticipating Him to show up ... and He does! He always does.

I was studying my Experiencing God workbook this morning when I came upon this phrase, which is talking about quiet time with God: "I keep that time alone with God, not in order to have a relationship but because I have a relationship."

And even though writing is TOUGH, I truly feel it's an extension of my alone time with God. I don't write to make God happy, to get published, to drive everyone around me crazy, but rather because I have a relationship and the messages burn within me. As I just recently started telling my agent ... "I have been overcome with words!" They're words of hope, of healing ... words that are an outpouring of my quiet time with God.

So if I'm crazy, I'm in good company. In fact, I totally understand Paul when he said, "For if we are beside ourselves [mad, as some say], it is for God and concerns Him; if we are in our right mind, it is for your benefit, for the love of Christ controls and urges and impels us ..." 2 Corinthians 5:13-14 (Amplified).

So go ahead ... call me a crazy [mad] woman. I'll completely agree! Just please remember to pray for me, please :-)
Monday September 17, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 9:31PM EST on September 17, 2007

Has Begun!



Fans are giddy with excitement, My Life Unscripted is arriving in homes across the country!

Check out this stop on the tour from Home Steeped Hope:

You pick up a book, scan the back cover and it either grabs you or it doesn’t. When my influencer copy of My Life, Unscripted from Tricia Goyer arrived, the back cover copy jumped out at me and seconds later I was sinking into my couch, stealing enough time to confirm that this book is a definite keeper! Wait! Scratch that, it was SO good I made it a huge priority to finish before my niece’s 18th birthday party that weekend. I knew I had to pass it along. And as I read, I kept thinking of different teenage girls–nieces and friends–that would benefit with this warm and personal, yet hip, mentoring of Tricia’s in their hands.

What a Great Start! Thanks!

Here is the schedule for the rest of the tour!

MLU Blog Schedule

9/15
Tamera
http://www.tameraalexander.blogspot.com/

Christa
http://www.cballan.wordpress.com/

Mary
http://www.homesteepedhope.com/

9/17
Ruth
http://www.xanga.com/christianfictionqueen
http://www.myspace.com/bookwoman

Trish
http://ordinarylife.typepad.com/books/

Jennifer
http://somanybooksblog.blogspot.com/

9/18
Martha
http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/Martha/

Sherry
http://www.dreamersb.blogspot.com/

Lauren
http://www.wrenspilgrimage.com/reviews

9/19
Shari
http://whatnottowearworkshops.com/cgi/wp/

Angie
http://godusesbrokenvessels.blogspot.com/

Gina
http://refreshmentrefuge.blogspot.com/

9/20
Elizabeth Ann
http://eclecticandexquisite.blogspot.com/

Jessica
http://cavanaughclan5.blogspot.com/

Jake
http://www.risefromyourslumber.blogspot.com/

9/21
Tiffany
http://www.writingcareercoach.com/

Karla
www.roadstoeverywhere.com/blog.html

Rachelle
http://zyphe.blogspot.com/

9/22
Jenny
mybucklingbookshelf.blogspot.com

Diane
www.homeschoolblogger.com/DayFamily

Margaret
http://http//margaretdaley.blogspot.com

9/24
Stacy
http://debroffdebrief.clubmom.com/

Margaret
http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/cappuccinosmom/profile/

9/25
Mary
http://www.relevantblog.blogspot.com/

Melanie
http://www.melaniewrites.blogspot.com/

Jennifer
http://www.jennifersnapshot.blogspot.com/

9/26
Georgiana
http://georgianad.blogspot.com/

Jamie
http://survivingthechaos.blogspot.com/

Jannie
lernst@houston.rr.com

April
http://www.projectinga.blogspot.com/

9/27
Miralee
http://www.miraleesdesk.blogspot.com/

Suzanne
http://www.suzannewoodsfisher.blogspot.com/

Ocieanna
http://ocieanna.blogspot.com/

9/28
Linda
http://linesfromlinda.com/
http://lindafulkerson.com/

Virginia
http://cecelane.blogspot.com/

Gretchen
http://dreamwriter07.blogspot.com/

9/29
Linda
http://lindaruthspot.blogspot.com/

Sandra
http://aspire2.blogspot.com/

Leticia
http://shadowbearcat.bravejournal.com/

10/1
Tasra
http://realwomenscrap.typepad.com/

Lisa
e-newsletter, PARENtEEN (www.nnym.net/sites/parenteen)

Cynthia
http://beneaththeivywreath.blogspot.com/

Jeannette
http://www.hismarvelouswork.blogspot.com/

10/2
Jill
http://cwahmjill.blogspot.com/

Rachel
http://www.rachelhauck.com/

L.C.
http://lashaunda.blogspot.com/

10/3
Jessica
http://farmfreshiowa.blogspot.com/

Karen
http://surviving-motherhood.blogspot.com/

Roz
http://rozcorner.blogspot.com/

10/5
Michelle
http://www.edgyinspirationalauthor.blogspot.com/

Annette
yeshuasdove@comcast.nethttp://www.annetteirby.blogspot.com/

Jason
http://www.spoiledfortheordinary.blogspot.com/

10/6
Deborah
http://books-movies-chinesefood.blogspot.com/

Cheryl
http://cherylklarich.blogspot.com/

Kelly
http://www.novelreviews.blogspot.com/
http://www.novelreviews.blogspot.com/

10/8
Karen
http://www.sky-highview.blogspot.com/
www.myspace.com/writethetruth

Tara
http://pianogirl.wordpress.com/
http://www.myspace.com/pianogirl128

Lesley
http://lafuze.blogspot.com/

Marcia
http://writer-lee.blogspot.com/

10/9
Christy
http://christysbookblog.blogspot.com/

Jan
http://www.janslittlecorner.blogspot.com/

Gail
http://www.gailmartin.blogspot.com/

10/10
Vicki
http://www.vickitalleymccollum.blogspot.com/

Jennie
http://jenslifejourney.blogspot.com/

Cee Cee
http://booksplurge.blogspot.com/

10/12
David
http://http//dameigs.blogspot.com/

Dineen
http://www.shoutlife.com/dineenmiller
http://www.dineenmiller.blogspot.com/

Diann
http://www.diannmills.com/blog/

10/13
Sarah
http://www.soulscents.us/
changingtheworld4him.blogspot.com

Stephanie

Narelle
http://www.relzreviewz.blogspot.com/

10/14
Tyora
http://cookieaisle.blogspot.com/
http://faithwebbin.net/share/authors
aTeenzfaith http://faithwebbin.net/teenz/

Julie
http://theradicalwrite.blogspot.com/

Joe
http://www.xtremelifecoaching.com/

10/15
Jill
http://www.jillelizabethnelson.com/artisticblogger.shtml

Mimi
http://tagsandotherformsofmischief.blogspot.com/

Winter
http://rodeosuspense.blogspot.com/

10/16
Deena
http://deenasbooks.blogspot.com/

Nicole
www.hopeofglory.typepad.com/into_the_fire

10/17
Pattie
www.xanga.com/pattierwr
http://freshbrewedwriter.blogspot.com/

Janis
http://www.janisrodgers.blogspot.com/

Michelle
http://www.michelleswritingspace.blogspot.com/

10/19
Jennifer
http://www.mineralz.blogspot.com/

Marlo
http://www.marloschalesky.blogspot.com/
www.myccm.org/marloschalesky
www.shoutlife.com/marloschalesky

Heather
http://booksandbairns.blogspot.com/

10/20
Christy
http://christylashea.blogspot.com/
http://writingbyfaith.blogspot.com/
http://shoutlife.com/christylashea

Lynetta
http://www.lynetta.blogspot.com/

10/21
Lynette
http://myslicesoflife.blogspot.com/

Staci
http://stacistallings.blogspot.com/

10/22
Camy
http://camysloft.blogspot.com/

Brittanie
http://abookloverforever.blogspot.com/

Amy
http://peek-a-booicu.blogspot.com/

Chris
http://www.myCCM.org/ChrisWellhttp://www.studiowell.com/

10/23
Ernie
http://ernsblog.blogspot.com/

Marybeth
http://www.marybethwhalen.com/

Cheryl
http://www.scrollsquirrel.blogspot.com/

10/24
Susan
http://susanmaywarren.com/

Michelle

Jill
http://www.teenageauthor.com/
http://www.themissionleague.com/
http://www.jillmwilliamson.com/

10/26
Allison
http://www.hearthitting.blogspot.com/
http://www.nnym.net/sites/parenteen
Friday September 7, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 10:34AM EST on September 7, 2007
I interrupt my work to drop a short note ... I can juggle! Seriously I can!
 
Currently, I'm working on not one, not but TWO Galleys. (A galley is the pre-published version of a book in which the author and editors work on the last tweaks.) I'm working on galleys for 3:16 Teen Version (Max Lucado) and for Generation NeXt Marriage. I also got edits back for my next novel A Whisper of Freedom.
 
Oh, oh, oh ... and just this week I received author copies of A Shadow of Treason AND My Life, Unscripted. It was wonderful to hold these books in my hands!So just call me the juggling author ... of course the only way I can do this is with the strength and wisdom of God. He keeps me afloat!
Thursday August 23, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 12:21PM EST on August 23, 2007

I have a friend named Mary who is like me in many ways. We both write fiction and non-fiction. We both still have kids at home. We are Gen Xers and proud of it!Mary as a new book. You can read a sample chapter here. (Go ahead, try it!)

Authentic Parenting in a Postmodern Culture
by Mary E. DeMuth
Harvest House, July 1, 2007
 
 
I'm also posting and interview with Mary. And if you live in THIS world, today, and scratch your head at why people do what they do ... I think you'll find it insightful.
 
Why did you write this book? Aren’t there already a bazillion parenting books out there?
 
Yes, I do believe there are a bazillion. I always struggle when I write a parenting book because I feel so darned small and weak. I don’t parent perfectly. But, we did live through two and half years in France, the hotbed of hyper-postmodernity. We had to learn how to parent our kids in that culture. It occurred to me that the things we learned would be helpful to American parents too.
 
What does postmodern mean? And why should it matter to parents?
 
Postmodernism is the waiting room between what used to be a modern worldview and what will be. According to several postmodern scholars, we’re in a shift right now, leaving modern ideas behind, but what we are shifting to is not yet fully defined. Postmoderns believe that rationalism and/or more education doesn’t necessarily create a better society. They typically don’t embrace the notion of absolute truth, though they reach for the transcendent. They are skeptical, and often question whether science is something to be embraced or feared. The question for parents is how will we mine the current worldview, even as it shifts? What in it can we embrace as biblical? What is not biblical? What I’ve seen in the church is a fearful adherence to what is familiar. So we cling to modern ideas, even though they may not be biblical and shun postmodern ideas even when they might be biblical. Our children will meet this shifting worldview no matter what our opinion of it is.
 
How can a parent help their children prepare for the world outside their door?
  • Become a conversational parent. Talk to your kids. Listen. Share your story.
  • Dare to believe that God has much to teach you through your kids. Be humble enough to learn from them.
  • Create a haven for your kids, an oasis in your home that protects, supports, and gives kids space to be themselves. Take seriously the mandate that you are responsible for the soul-nurturing of your children.
  • Teach your children to joyfully engage their world, while holding tightly to Jesus’ hand. Teaching this comes primarily from modeling it in your own life. Do you engage your neighbors? Are you more interested in God’s kingdom than your own? Admit your failures openly with your children, showing how much you need Jesus to live your daily life.

You are the first to admit that being authentic might require a parent to apologize after an angry outburst. Are you saying that authentic parents don’t always have it all together as some would like to think?

Yep! We are all frail, needy humans. If we present ourselves as perfect parents, never failing, always doing this correctly, we show our children we have no need of Jesus. We also set up a standard of perfection—that to be a Christian, one has to be perfect. This can lead to our children creating elaborate facades or hiding behind masks. I’d rather have my children see that even mommies make mistakes. Even mommies need Jesus every single day.

You talk about the twin values of engagement and purity. What does that mean?

Many parents subconsciously believe that true parenting means protection at any cost. We received a lot of flak for putting our children in French schools because the atmosphere there wasn’t exactly nurturing. Believe me, the decision was excruciating. But through it all, I realized that Jesus calls us all to be engaged in the culture we live in, yet not to be stained by it. That’s the beauty of engagement and purity. Abraham understood this. After God told him to leave everything and venture to a new place, he obeyed: “From there he went on toward the hills east of Bethel and pitched his tent, with Bethel on the west and Ai on the east. There he built an altar to the LORD and called on the name of the LORD” (Genesis 12:8). Oswald Chambers elaborates: “Bethel is the symbol of communion with God; Ai is the symbol of the world. Abraham pitched his tent between the two.” As parents journeying alongside our children through a postmodern world, this concept of pitching our tent between communion with God and engagement in the world should encourage us.

What bugs you about postmodernism?

I happen to believe in absolute truth, so that’s a problem! But more than that, I worry that all our rambling about it, trying to discern what it is, has caused us to rely more heavily on our own intellectual pursuit of God than our heart. When I get caught up in that, I remind myself of my friend Jeanne’s son Jacob, whose heart after Jesus takes my breath away. Living with a brain injury, Jacob throws off pretense as he worships God, arms vaulted to the sky in unashamed heart worship. That’s the kind of believer I want to be. That’s the kind of heart I want. I love this verse: “But I am afraid that, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds will be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ” (2 Corinthians 11:3). For me, for my children, that’s my prayer, that we’d be simply and purely devoted to Jesus no matter what worldview we find ourselves in.

To purchase, click here.

Meet Mary and read her crazy blog here.

Monday July 30, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 12:49PM EST on July 30, 2007
1Timothy 2:1, 3 (The Message)

The first thing I want you to do is pray. Pray every way you know how, for everyone you know…This is the way our savior God wants us to live.

More than anything, parenting takes courage. There is no going with the flow, no just trying to slide by, when it comes to raising kids.

As we enter the uphill battle of child rearing, we must trust the success of our parenting to God. Prayer is key. Sometimes situations are hard to see, and we feel like we are blindly tramping around. In raising kids in this day and age, we need to take all our needs before God and leave the results to Him. In prayer we plead our case before God, we get God’s perspective, and gain confidence and courage.

God doesn’t always answer our prayers in the way we hoped or expected, but we can trust that He will answer our prayer in the best way, not just sometimes, but every time.

As Gen X parents, we know that these are trying times to be raising children, but we must realize that we are parents now, not by chance, but by design. God has called us to parent specifically during this time in history.

Here are some scriptures for your parenting journey:

1. Prayers of need (Psalm 55:22, Jeremiah 17:7-8)

2. Prayers of thanksgiving (Psalm 40:5, Romans 11:33)

3. Prayers for seeking families (Matthew 11:25, Psalm 116:6-7)

4. Prayers for generations (Psalm 105:708, Psalm 100:5)

©Tricia Goyer

Friday July 20, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 11:26AM EST on July 20, 2007
Meet Laura Christianson. She is an author and freelance journalist specializing in adoption-related issues. Her "Exploring Adoption" blog received Forbes magazine's "Best of the Web" rating. Laura has written numerous general-interest features and essays for national and regional publications. She speaks regularly at writers conferences and other events. Laura lives in Seattle with her husband and two children, who both joined their family through adoption. You can learn more about Laura and her books at her website.

1. Can you tell us a little about your self and how you became interested in adoption?

After my husband and I had been married five years, we decided it was time to start having children. Then we discovered we had infertility challenges. During the time we were trying to decide how to deal with our infertility, several of our friends adopted. We closely observed them, pummeled them with questions, and decided that adopting would be the best family-building option for us. Rather than pursuing infertility treatment, we quickly moved towards adoption.

We adopted our two sons when they were newborns (they are now 14 and 11 years old), and we have completely open adoptions with their respective birth families, which is quite a fun adventure!

2. There seems to be an increase in the amount of adoptions happening in this country. What do you attribute this trend to?

With the recent tightening of adoption laws in other countries, the amount of parents adopting internationally actually decreased slightly, from 22,728 in Fiscal Year 2005 to 20,679 in FY 2006. But interest in and awareness of adoption is on the rise. I attribute some of that to the fascination with celebrities such as Angelina Jolie and Madonna, who have recently adopted. Because they are such high-profile people, their adoption stories put adoption in the news—and on people’s minds.

Plus, with an entire generation of internationally-adopted children now grown, families with multiple ethnicities are becoming the norm. People are used to seeing white parents with Chinese children. More people are acquainted with adoptive families. Once you meet an adoptive family and realize they really aren’t all that weird, your own interest in adoption increases and you begin to ponder the possibility of adding to your family through adoption.

3. How can couples who want to adopt make it happen? Where do they start?

Most people who truly have a heart to adopt can make it happen, but it takes a great deal of patience and perseverance. For starters, I recommend learning as much as you can about adoption, so that when the unforeseen happens (and it will happen), you’ll be slightly more prepared. Read as many adoption books as possible, subscribe to magazines such as Adoptive Families and Adoption TODAY, peruse adoption blogs, subscribe to e-mail discussion groups specific to the type(s) of adoption you are considering, request information packets from all the

adoption agencies and facilitators in your region, join support groups for adoptive families, and pummel other adoptive parents with questions! Most of us adoptive parents truly enjoy sharing our experiences – we’ve been where you are and know what you’re feeling. Educating yourself about adoption will give you confidence and will equip you with the practical tools you need to build your family through adoption.

4. Can you tell me a little about your new books and what prompted you to write them?

Eleven years ago, after we adopted our second child, I was a member of an online Christian support group for infertile women and adoptive moms. We often discussed the crazy comments people—particularly, our relatives—made about adoption. I decided to write a short booklet to help educate adoptive grandparents about adoption, so they could better support their adult children who were adopting. As I began researching, I realized I had enough material for a full-length book.

Because you’re an author yourself, Tricia, you know that the process of “pitching” a book project to agents and editors is not for the faint-hearted. I attended Christian writers’ conferences for three years, pitching my project right and left and incorporating suggestions from various editors/agents into my book proposal. Last year, Harvest House Publishers offered me a contract for The Adoption Decision (which releases in early August). As soon as I finished writing that manuscript, I completed another manuscript I had been working on, The Adoption

Network (which was just released by WinePress Publishing).

I call The Adoption Decision a “how-to for the heart,” because it acquaints readers with the emotional and spiritual aspects of adoption and adoptive parenting. It’s packed with fascinating stories from people whose lives are directly impacted by adoption – there’s no dry, boring, clinical stuff in this book! I think it’s an entertaining read and it helps people clarify what they want their own adoption to “look like.”

The Adoption Network is a companion volume to The Adoption Decision. It’s a workbook for people who want build a face-to-face community of support for adoptive and foster families, birth/first parents, or adopted people. It is packed with worksheets and practical tips about how to start an adoption ministry in your church or community.

5. In your opinion, what is the most important piece of advice for someone in the process of adopting?

Hang in there! The adoption process truly stretches you—sometimes past the limits of what you imagine you can bear. But it also grows you in ways you never would have expected or experienced otherwise. While you may wonder whether you’ll ever meet that child you’ve begun to love, it will happen. As you’re waiting, be proactive about creating a support network for both you and your future child. Make an appointment with a pediatrician who specializes in adoption medicine, find out what social services are available in your community for adopted children, and attend events where you can meet other adoptive families. A support network is an invaluable

resource for adoptive families.

6. Do you consider adoption support your job or your ministry?

Both. About 10 years ago, I started an adoption support ministry at my church in Seattle; I care deeply about encouraging and informing those who are considering adoption and adoptive families. My Exploring Adoption blog is a ministry as well, since I do it in my spare time (but have become rather addicted to it). With the publication of two adoption books, I have moved into the realm of “doing” adoption support on a professional level, as well. But my passion and my calling is to help people; I’ll continue providing adoption support, and if I generate any income from doing so, that’s icing on the cake.

7. How are you using your blog in your work? What has been the biggest surprise?

Blogging about adoption has been the best learning experience of my life! I have met (virtually speaking) fascinating people who have readily shared their stories and their lives with me and my readers. My readers have expanded my narrow perspective on adoption exponentially during the almost three years I’ve been blogging. Because I regularly check my blog’s stats, I’m able to keep tabs on the topics the majority of my readers are interested in. What has most surprised me is the huge numbers of people who are interested in adopting children with Down syndrome. That’s cool!

8. What do you do in your spare time?

You mean, when I’m not blogging? I spend a lot of time at my 14-year-old son’s baseball games (and cross country meets, and basketball games, depending on the season). I love reading books to my 11-year-old son. He loves fantasy books and “dragon” books and he likes to hear me “do” the characters’ voices. I also love to walk, swim, and rollerblade. Right now, I’m in the midst of starting a new internet blogging/marketing/writing business called HeBlogsSheBlogs.com, with my business partner, Jim Rubart. Planning that takes up a big chunk of my free time, but it’s exciting, and we can’t wait to launch our business.

9. What are the last five books you read or movies you watched?

Movies: The Fantastic Four: Rise of the Silver Surfer; Raising Helen; Bella; Facing the Giants; and Leave It To Beaver, Season 1 DVD (“The Beav” is family-friendly and a complete riot; we all love it).

Books (I read multiple books at one time): The Secret Life of Becky Miller and Renovating Becky Miller, by Sharon Hinck; Tears of a Dragon, by Bryan Davis; Why Didn’t You Warn Me?: How to Deal With Challenging Group Members, by Pat Sikora; Whitehorn Woods, by Maeve Binchy; Bones That Float: A Story of Adopting Cambodia, by Kari Grady Grossman, and Shopoholic and Baby, by Sophie Kinsella. Yes, I have eclectic taste in books!
Wednesday July 18, 2007
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Sunday July 8, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Tricia Goyer at 7:38AM EST on July 8, 2007
I’ve been reading through 1 Corinthians and what I read this morning perfectly summarizes what I experienced last night while sitting at the Christy dinner. First of all, it was wonderful attending with no expectations and no agenda. I was not a Christy award nominee, nor was I sitting with a publisher—as wonderful as they are! I was there with friends to celebrate friends. And to cheer on those who God used to write amazing novels for His glory.

 
The people in attendance wore the most wonderful dresses and suits you can imagine, but for those who I’ve had the honor of getting to know personally, what really sparkled was their hearts.

I’m not sure how many people attended, but I’m sure there were a few hundred. And what struck me the most as that I was sitting there with them … I was included, invited in. Not by any organization, but by a God who called me to this work.

A girl born in a place called Weed—a not-much-there town, born to a single mom.

A young woman who made all the wrong choices, except one … to give her mess-ups to God at 17-years-old and trust He could do something better with her life.
 
A former teen mom. A mom of three by age 22. A person bearing no degrees which confirm I excel at my understanding literature or have been trained in higher education.
Someone who should have won the: least-likely-to-be-a-published novelist award at my first writer’s conference in 1994 (if they’d given such a thing out). And there I was, sitting among the top publishers, top agents, top writers, feeling grateful and in awe of God-at-work.
 
1 Corinthians 1