Hello, people.
I have only just happened to stumble across you all here and I apologize for asking for your help as well without being a member here. I am at the end of my rope.
Eight years ago I dated a girl and we got serious, and it lasted for six years. When it was over, it was peaceable and we seperated.
Later, I found a new wonderful woman and we fell very much in love.
She and my ex became friends as well and moved in together.
Things got bad and their experience as rommmates was awful and ended badly. It had nothing to do with any issues about me, just them as people, they didn't work.
My ex moved on and started dating a friend of my current girlfriend. Things did not work so well there either, and now there is a vow of silence between my ex and my wonderful lady. My lady really holds a lot of resentment about a lot of stuff with my ex, and while none of it is really about me, it is hard.
My ex and I work together in a band we were in for four years. I am happy with my friendship with her now, and love playing in my band. My lady used to be very supportive and always went to our shows. She doesn't anymore, and there have been a lot of very messed up situations.
I know this probably sounds like a really stupid reason to ask for help, but Lord, I just want peace between these people. I just want peace and forgiveness and resolution. Nothing that happened is beyond that, but it is very hard to connect about that with my girlfriend because she does not have the Lord.
She is jewish but also free thinking, I don't see that as a problem but I still hope and believe that Christ can touch even those outside of Christianity. I know he can work in hearts no matter what and I just need his help so badly because I am stuck in the middle of a very uncomfortable situation. I am sure this sounds petty if you are not in it, but it hurts me very deeply on a daily basis, and it hurts everyone involved, too.
I need the healing to begin so badly. I understand why everyone feels the way they do, but I can't keep going on like this. Both are good people inside and I love and respect everyone and am SO in love with my wonderful girlfriend...and I know she has it in her to get past this stuff. This is crushing me and I feel like an awful person and don't know what to do.
Please help me.
I love you all.
Thank you...
