Friend help....
Asked by:
singergirl on
November 16, 2007 at
6:00PM EST
Recently, my friend has stopped talking to me, and someone told me why. They said it was because she thought i was cocky, i joke too much, and i brag a lot, which i don't do. Then when we were at church, we were talking about the 8th commandment, and my friend said that if you have a problem with someone, then they should tell you. But she hasn't told me. Does that make her a hypocrite? Should i be offended by this? What do you think i should do?
(3) Answers
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Dynamics between friends can be hard. The first thing you should do is ask God to help you think this through and be open to seeing yourself for who you really are and how you relate to other people. Open your heart to the truth - if you treat other people with the highest level of love and respect, then you don't have anything to worry about. The fact is that we all need to do better in our relationships - no one is perfect. The next thing you need to do is go to your friend and find out the truth - often hearsay is wrong - it is always best to talk to people directly in a loving, caring way - with a lot of humility. As a musician you will always have people that are jealous, but that doesn't mean you can't love them as much as anyone else. Remember, we only have one choice - Jesus told us to love one another.
Peace, Mike Amos of Amos and Amos
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Answered by: Kris on November 20, 2007 11:57PM EST
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Don't be affened by the way there actting ask God for help and will. And every thing should be back to normal.
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